Don’t let the 142cm fool you! Being dominated by someone this small hits different…
I’ve been in the BDSM lifestyle since I was a teenager. This isn’t a role I play, for me, it’s who I am, and I couldn’t imagine another path!
My professional journey has been unconventional. I spent over a decade as an international sugar baby and escort, getting to hang out with some amazing people. Being in the Adult Industry since 18 years old, taught me how to read people, navigate power dynamics, and understand desire in all its complexity! Those years weren’t separate from my kink practice, they were an extension of it. Even my “vanilla” clients were experimental and kinky; I don’t know that I could ever be with someone who wasn’t kinky tbh. I learned what people want versus what they think they want. I learned how to hold space for vulnerability. I learned that true power isn’t about dominance for its own sake, it’s about understanding exactly what someone needs and having the skill to deliver it (and being humble enough to recognise when you cannot).
When I decided to focus exclusively on ProDomme work, I sought formal training to refine my craft. I trained in Germany from 2013–2015, completing my apprenticeship at Kamilla La Dee’s under Miss Bo.
That training was rigorous and very humbling. I worked six shifts a week, full availability, and I had to work as a submissive before I was ever allowed to dominate professionally. I spent eight months being on the receiving end of sessions, working alongside established Pro Dommes, learning every technique from the bottom’s perspective first. Only after demonstrating proficiency in a comprehensive range of skills and logging countless after-hours practice was I allowed to shadow sessions and eventually work as a Dominatrix myself!
And Berlin? Berlin taught me everything the dungeon could not.
By day, I was in the dungeon training and working for 30Euro a day (apprenticeship money). By night, I was at Berghain, KitKatClub, living the lifestyle in its rawest!! I wasn’t just learning techniques, I was immersed in a culture where kink wasn’t compartmentalised or sanitised. It was art, community, expression, freedom. That’s where I learned that the best domination isn’t scripted, it’s intuitive, responsive, and alive. Of course, my apprenticeship did not matter at the club, so I got to play, my way!
Trust me when I say: I know how it feels.
I know what it’s like to be vulnerable, to surrender control, to experience the psychological and physical intensity of submission. That’s not theoretical knowledge for me, it’s lived experience. And it fundamentally shapes how I work now.
I’m not submissive by nature. Like, at all.
That’s exactly why I make it a practice to book sessions as a submissive at least once a year, as a reminder. A reminder of what it feels like to be on the other side. A reminder of how much trust it takes to hand over control. A reminder that the vulnerability my clients bring into the room isn’t something to take lightly!
It’s uncomfortable. It goes against every instinct I have, and that’s exactly why I do it!
Because the moment I forget what it feels like to be the one surrendering, I lose something essential in how I hold space for others.
Later, I began Fetish House’s apprenticeship in 2022. These experiences further gave me technical expertise, safety protocols, and professional structure.
But the best learning? Living this!
The formal training taught me techniques like time-bound scene negotiation and risk-aware protocols. The lifestyle and my years in sex work taught me instinct, depth, and how to read what someone truly wants before they can articulate it.
Now? I guess you could say I’m a sugar mama. The tables have turned, and I like them this way.
I don’t ‘perform’ domination. I understand it, embody it, and have spent decades exploring its edges; both professionally and personally.
My Approach
I specialise in experiences that push psychological and physical boundaries.
Filth play isn’t just about the act. It’s about the surrender, could be about the devotion, or the humiliation, the complete loss of dignity in a safe container.
Adult Baby regression goes beyond diapers and bottles. It’s about creating a space where you can let go of adult responsibility, be held accountable like a child, and experience vulnerability without judgment.
Pegging and feminisation aren’t just physical; they’re about power exchange, the ritual of surrender, and exploring edges of identity and control.
Psychological domination is where I thrive. SPH, verbal humiliation, mindfuckery. I read between the lines of what you say to find what you actually mean. What you’re afraid to admit. Where your real edge is.
What I Bring to Sessions
I’m not here to fulfill a fantasy checklist. I’m here to take you somewhere you cannot take yourself.
That requires trust and structure. It requires someone who can hold space for intensity without losing control of the room.
My background in escorting and sugaring taught me how to navigate complex emotional and power dynamics. My formal BDSM training, including eight months working as a submissive, gave me technical skills and embodied empathy. Berlin’s underground scene taught me that the best sessions feel less like transactions and more like transformations. My lifestyle experience gave me the instinct to know when to push, when to pause, and when to go deeper than you thought you could handle!
I work with clients who understand that real intensity requires real commitment. That’s why I require deposits for all bookings. It’s not about the money, it’s about ensuring we’re both investing in the experience fully.
Who I Work Best With
Clients who know what they want, or at least know they want to explore something specific; even if they can’t fully articulate it yet.
People who can tolerate uncertainty. Who don’t need every detail negotiated upfront. Who can trust that I know what I’m doing and will meet them where they are.
Those who understand that my structure; deposits, consultations, clear booking processes, are not obstacles. It’s the framework that makes intensity possible.
If that resonates, you’re probably in the right place.
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