A consultation is a conversation to make sure we’re genuinely aligned before we begin.
I take these seriously because they set the foundation for everything that follows. When you come prepared, we can spend our time exploring what you actually want instead of covering basics you could have read on my website.
Before we talk:
Read my website. Especially the sections on my approach, specialties, and what I don’t offer. This saves us both time and ensures you’re reaching out because my work genuinely speaks to you, not because you’re casting a wide net.
Know your boundaries. You don’t need to have everything figured out, but come with a sense of your hard limits and what you’re curious about exploring.
Be honest about what you’re seeking. If you’re unsure, that’s fine; say that. But if you want something outside what I offer (check my site first), we’ll both know quickly and can part respectfully.
Follow the deposit instructions. I know it sounds basic, but reading them carefully avoids confusion and delays.
What happens in a consultation:
We talk. I ask questions. You ask questions. We figure out if there’s alignment and chemistry, not just in kink, but in communication style, expectations, and energy.
If we’re aligned, we book. If we’re not, that’s okay! Better to know now than halfway through a session.
The goal:
By the end of our consultation, you should feel clear, excited, and confident that booking with me is the right choice.
I should feel the same.